Sunday, December 29, 2013

The Greatest Love

This new year let us not forget the about the greatest love of all. A love so strong that Jesus Christ gave his life for you and me. As we begin to celebrate this new year we should also celebrate new life.

John 3:16

16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.


Sunday, December 22, 2013

Love This Holiday

This holiday season many people are alone, without love, without peace, and without happiness. That's why it is important that we are thankful for the special people in our lives. Those select few who make each and every day worth living, and make each and every holiday much more precious.
Thank God for love this holiday season, and that God that he loves us.



It is arguably the most important part of a relationship. 

Patience by definition means,

The quality of being patient, as the bearing of provocation, annoyance, misfortune, or pain, without complaint, loss of temper, irritation, or the like.
The ability or willingness to suppress restlessness or annoyance when confronted with delay. 

There will be days when it feels like you have none at all, and others when you'll feel as if you have all of the patience in the world. When it comes to your mate it can be particularly challenging to deal with the ups and downs of a relationship.

So it is important to put patience in context. It is important to remember that as imperfect human beings we all require a certain amount of understanding. 

If you want your mate to be patient with you then you will have to be patient with them. Unless you aspire to be in a one sided relationship dominated by your needs, feelings, and emotions. 
One sided relationships never work.


Tuesday, December 17, 2013

A Special Occasion

Every day is a special occasion. You opened your eyes, and you enjoyed the gift of life. You got out of bed with the full activity of your limbs, and you are blessed enough to have people in your life who love, and care about you.

Every day may not be a perfect day. 
But every day is a special occasion.


Wednesday, December 11, 2013


The magic is becoming one. Two whole hearts defying mathematics to become one singular being. A love so rich, and a bond so strong that it's hard to tell where one ends and the other begins. But maybe there was no beginning until they met. Perhaps the rest of the time they were just being shaped, made, and molded for their inevitable one, and then love began on its way to a place called never ending forever more.


Saturday, December 7, 2013

Unconditional Love?

Unconditional love. It sounds good in the context of a romantic relationship. But it is no more than a fictional idea. It is a concept used to create depth within this thing called love. 
But the bottom line is, loving someone in spite of what they do is not at all realistic unless we all have the inclination to reduce ourselves to living, breathing door mats. The fact is, each and every one of us has conditions on our love. You might say that it is possible to separate and love someone from a far. But it's just not sustainable. Everybody has a limit.

There is no such thing as unconditional love. But we must love unconditionally.
Meaning that we must condition ourselves not to do anything to put our relationships in jeopardy. We must condition our hearts and minds so that we don't engage in behavior that forces our mate to contemplate the validity of the relationship.

There has to be a determination to see love through with a tenacity and dedication that overcomes all of our doubts and fears to be triumphant and perservere.

There is no such thing as unconditional love but we must love unconditionally.


Thursday, December 5, 2013


           PURE BLACK LOVE
                  ENOUGH SAID


Wednesday, December 4, 2013

An Action Word.

Nothing in life that is worth having comes easy.
Such is love. Far too many people are so desperate for love that they create a version of it that is non-existant. But a version of love is not really love at all. Love is not something that can be tailor made from a longing to possess the emotion. Some, fall in love with the idea of being in love. But not all ideas are good ideas, especially if the object of your affection does not feel the same as you do. Saying those three words is a small part of love. 

Love is an action word. 


Monday, December 2, 2013


These are profound rules to love by and live by.

Watch your thoughts, they become words.

Watch your words, they become actions.

Watch your actions, they become habits.

Watch your habits, they become character.

Watch your character it becomes your destiny.