Wednesday, February 26, 2014

BLACK LOVE IS.........



BLACK LOVE IS.........


Monday, February 24, 2014

3 Reason's Why You Should Google This Guy/Girl

#1. Usually someone who is a loser, will never, ever tell you that they are a loser. The guy who drives a Lexus and lives with his mother will hope, wish, and pray that you'll be enamored with his car enough to overlook the fact that he still writes his name on the orange juice.

#2. Some that you meet will not tell you everything. Like Chris Rock once said, they'll introduce you to their representative. The one that has a job, ambitions, dreams, and goals. Not the real person who has none of the above.

#3. You may be putting your life in jeopardy, if you don't Google them. Everybody has a crazy ex. But nobody everybody admits to being the crazy ex themselves. For all you know you could be dating somebody's crazy ex. You never know.


Wednesday, February 19, 2014

Everybody Wants To Win, But Not Everybody Wants To Fight

Most people want to be in love. But most people don't want to fight for it. In America today over 50% of all marriages end in divorce, and in the Black community 75% of all households are headed by Black women. I know that each and every situation is different. But is seems as if people don't value love, or really know what it is to love. If they did, divorce wouldn't be the instant answer to problems in a marriage, and men wouldn't abandon their children, and their mothers because they would realize what an essential commodity their love is to their families. 

True love, real love, is worth fighting for. Regardless of the challenges, hurdles, and impediments that life can bring. 


Saturday, February 15, 2014

Thursday, February 13, 2014

Wanting & Waiting

Soft perfume.
Silk voices crooning over a slow saxophone. 
Warm lavender oil hot in my hands bringing a shine to your skin as I massage in concentric circles on your back.
You shiver as my hands move lower, becoming all too aware that my passion is rising.
Your legs move a little further away from each other, and I can see, passion, excstacy, and perfection all in one place, there for me. 
Waiting and wanting.
Wanting and waiting.


Monday, February 10, 2014

The Love of Family

I know that many of my readers think of Black love as a romantic notion. But the fact of the matter is that Black love is not just about your husband, your wife, your lover, or your boo thang. It's also about your extended family. That special connection you share with those who have your DNA, your blood line, your ancestry, and your life long memories. These are the people who can tell you what it was like to change your diapers even though you're in your fourties now. These are the people who know you well enough to remind you who you are, what you are and where you're going.
The love of cousins, aunts, uncles, brothers, and sisters is a different love than any other. Not a better love. But a different love because it was always there, and there is nothing you can do to stop it, change it, or block it.


Wednesday, February 5, 2014

4 Ways To Set The Mood

#1. Compliment your mate by being attentive to their dreams, and validating their desires.

#2. Do whatever you can to make life a little easier for the one you love. Even when you're tired, hungry and life hasn't been easy for you on that particular day.

#3. Be a good listener even if you don't always hear what they're saying. Remember that listening opens the door to understanding.

#4. Make dinner, serve dinner, and be desert.


Monday, February 3, 2014

What Love Really Means

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Every now and then you should ask yourself, if you love like this or if you're being loved like this.