Sunday, March 30, 2014
A friend of mine asked me if it is good to be superficial. Most of us have been told our entire lives that superficiality is the sign of a shallow person. But we all have a "type" or a preference in reference to who or what we're attractive to. But those superficial qualities don't last forever. What will sustain your relationship in the long run?
Saturday, March 29, 2014
Monday, March 24, 2014
Everyone wants to find that special someone. But does anyone ever ask themselves if they are special enough to keep that special someone. The fact of the matter is. You get what you give. You can call it karma, what goes around comes around, energy, or just the law of the universe.
Too many people desire that special someone yet they have no desire to make themselves special. There is no magical person or being that can make you whole. Only you can do that. Inviting a stranger into your mess just makes that mess bigger.
In order to get what you desire. You must be desirable.
Friday, March 21, 2014
Too many people get married because they think that it will fix things!
But if a relationship is already broken marriage cannot and will not fix it. All it does is complicate a mess, create a bigger disaster and intensify your misery.
With that being said, marriage can make a good relationship beautiful.
Think about the reasons why you want to pledge your life and promise your love.
Saturday, March 15, 2014
This concept may sound a little egotistical, loving yourself first. But it is actually the foundation for loving anyone else. How will you understand or recognize something that is not a part of you? When you learn how to embrace not only your flaws and imperfections, but your own potential, then others will notice your comfortability in your own skin and love you.
Wednesday, March 12, 2014
Saturday, March 8, 2014
Tuesday, March 4, 2014
Cultivating a quality relationship takes nurturing, dedication, patience and time.
But perhaps the most important element is time. Nothing that is of good quality happens in an instant. It has to be crafted, grown and developed to realize its full potential. Jumping into a relationship head first based on anything superficial is like skydiving without a parachute. There's no chance of survival. But certain disaster is inevitable.
Here are 5 reasons why you should make time for the one you love.
#1. If you don't somebody else will. The same person that you ignore and take for granted is gold to someone else, and they will treasure the one you treat like trash.
#2. There will come a time when you require attention. Attention requires time, and every successful relationship requires some level of reciprocity.
#3. Tomorrow isn't promised to any of us. A million people went to last night believing that tomorrow would be a new day. Not knowing that it would be a new day that they wouldn't live to see. We must treasure each and every moment and take time for love.