Your Happiness

LoVE The Lord!

LoVe Life!

LOve yourself!

There are some thing's that no one else can give you.

You are responsible for your own happiness.

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A Strong Foundation.

It is impossible to build paradise on sinking sand. You must remember and maintain your foundation.

LOVE, ESPECIALLY BLACK LOVE, starts with a strong foundation.

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Love Is An Art

Love is an art. Formed, created, and painted with a broad brush, stroked to perfection. It is a work of art desired by all. But truely owned by a few. It is wonder, splendor, and seredpity spread across life's canvas. Love is Love.

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What Love Does

Real love makes reality out of impossible math because it turns two into one without taking anything away.

THAT'S WHAT REAL LOVE DOES.

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Superficial

A friend of mine asked me if it is good to be superficial. Most of us have been told our entire lives that superficiality is the sign of a shallow person. But we all have a "type" or a preference in reference to who or what we're attractive to. But those superficial qualities don't last forever. What will sustain your relationship in the long run?

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Beneath Your Beautiful

True beauty comes from the inside out. Anything else is just a disguise. Real men can see beneath your beautiful. What will they find when they do?

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That Special Someone

Everyone wants to find that special someone. But does anyone ever ask themselves if they are special enough to keep that special someone. The fact of the matter is. You get what you give. You can call it karma, what goes around comes around, energy, or just the law of the universe.

Too many people desire that special someone yet they have no desire to make themselves special. There is no magical person or being that can make you whole. Only you can do that. Inviting a stranger into your mess just makes that mess bigger.

In order to get what you desire. You must be desirable.

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What Marriage Does.

Too many people get married because they think that it will fix things!

But if a relationship is already broken marriage cannot and will not fix it. All it does is complicate a mess, create a bigger disaster and intensify your misery.

With that being said, marriage can make a good relationship beautiful.

Think about the reasons why you want to pledge your life and promise your love.

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NeVeR eNoUgH !

NEVER

Enough

BLACK

LOVE

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Love Yourself First

This concept may sound a little egotistical, loving yourself first. But it is actually the foundation for loving anyone else. How will you understand or recognize something that is not a part of you? When you learn how to embrace not only your flaws and imperfections, but your own potential, then others will notice your comfortability in your own skin and love you.

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Nothing Like Her

               BLACK BEAUTY

There is nothing like the original women born of Adams rib, and given breath by the hand of God. 

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FIRE!

   Feel the

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Feel the 

Of

                     Black Love

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3 Reasons Why You Should Make Time

Cultivating a quality relationship takes nurturing, dedication, patience and time.

But perhaps the most important element is time. Nothing that is of good quality happens in an instant. It has to be crafted, grown and developed to realize its full potential. Jumping into a relationship head first based on anything superficial is like skydiving without a parachute. There's no chance of survival. But certain disaster is inevitable. 

Here are 5 reasons why you should make time for the one you love.

#1. If you don't somebody else will. The same person that you ignore and take for granted is gold to someone else, and they will treasure the one you treat like trash.

#2. There will come a time when you require attention. Attention requires time, and every successful relationship requires some level of reciprocity.

#3. Tomorrow isn't promised to any of us. A million people went to last night believing that tomorrow would be a new day. Not knowing that it would be a new day that they wouldn't live to see. We must treasure each and every moment and take time for love.

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3 Reason's Why You Should Google This Guy/Girl

#1. Usually someone who is a loser, will never, ever tell you that they are a loser. The guy who drives a Lexus and lives with his mother will hope, wish, and pray that you'll be enamored with his car enough to overlook the fact that he still writes his name on the orange juice.

#2. Some that you meet will not tell you everything. Like Chris Rock once said, they'll introduce you to their representative. The one that has a job, ambitions, dreams, and goals. Not the real person who has none of the above.

#3. You may be putting your life in jeopardy, if you don't Google them. Everybody has a crazy ex. But nobody everybody admits to being the crazy ex themselves. For all you know you could be dating somebody's crazy ex. You never know.

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Everybody Wants To Win, But Not Everybody Wants To Fight

Most people want to be in love. But most people don't want to fight for it. In America today over 50% of all marriages end in divorce, and in the Black community 75% of all households are headed by Black women. I know that each and every situation is different. But is seems as if people don't value love, or really know what it is to love. If they did, divorce wouldn't be the instant answer to problems in a marriage, and men wouldn't abandon their children, and their mothers because they would realize what an essential commodity their love is to their families. 

True love, real love, is worth fighting for. Regardless of the challenges, hurdles, and impediments that life can bring. 

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1,000 Words

             

         1,000 words not required

Wanting & Waiting

Soft perfume.

Silk voices crooning over a slow saxophone. 

Warm lavender oil hot in my hands bringing a shine to your skin as I massage in concentric circles on your back.

You shiver as my hands move lower, becoming all too aware that my passion is rising.

Your legs move a little further away from each other, and I can see it.......love, passion, excstacy, and perfection all in one place, there for me. 

Waiting and wanting.

Wanting and waiting.

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The Love of Family

I know that many of my readers think of Black love as a romantic notion. But the fact of the matter is that Black love is not just about your husband, your wife, your lover, or your boo thang. It's also about your extended family. That special connection you share with those who have your DNA, your blood line, your ancestry, and your life long memories. These are the people who can tell you what it was like to change your diapers even though you're in your fourties now. These are the people who know you well enough to remind you who you are, what you are and where you're going.

The love of cousins, aunts, uncles, brothers, and sisters is a different love than any other. Not a better love. But a different love because it was always there, and there is nothing you can do to stop it, change it, or block it.

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4 Ways To Set The Mood

#1. Compliment your mate by being attentive to their dreams, and validating their desires.

#2. Do whatever you can to make life a little easier for the one you love. Even when you're tired, hungry and life hasn't been easy for you on that particular day.

#3. Be a good listener even if you don't always hear what they're saying. Remember that listening opens the door to understanding.

#4. Make dinner, serve dinner, and be desert.

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