No pretense, no agenda, just raw.
in black and white. Because we often color by perception, and not what we see. But once we strip away our over-thinking, and get to the bare facts, love is beautiful.
PR
Sunday, February 22, 2015
Tuesday, February 3, 2015
Love, Not The Fantasy
Most of us have dreamed of meeting the perfect person. You know that beautiful idea of perfection without a care in the world. Someone who is always happy, always content, and will always do exactly what you want them to do. But that's just a fantasy.
Fantasies can't keep you warm at night or listen to your thoughts first thing in the morning.
Fantasies can't hold you close, taste your lips, or make love to you.
All that fantasies can do is disappoint you.
TRUE LOVE NEVER DOES!
PR
Sunday, January 4, 2015
Black Love Is More.....
Black love means many things!
We must never forget those who's shoulders we stand on, and love them for making it so that we can stand!
Saturday, December 27, 2014
So Much More
Black love is more than words can say
Though sometimes I try to come to to expressing the sheer joy that it brings me.
Waking up each and every morning with it lying next to me is like going through life with a never ending sweet treat.
Soft to the touch of my black hands, and rich to what my palate tastes.
It is the reason why I rise before the sun and journey across desolate highways to participate in a sherade with fools day after day.
It allows me to get back to quiet moments when I can lay at the top of my bed with head perch atop to pillows and look down at the real thing like the picture above.
PR
Friday, December 19, 2014
Fortune
During a lunch table discussion today me and a few of my co-workers were talking about relationships. Of course, everybody had their own unique perspective. But the common thread that I noticed throughout was the fact that everybody talked about what they wanted from their relationships. But only a few talked about what they could put into their relationship. My take is simple.......
A relationship is like a bank. You can only get out of it what you put into it. You can't deposit a penny and take out a fortune!
A relationship is like a bank. You can only get out of it what you put into it. You can't deposit a penny and take out a fortune!
PR
Wednesday, November 26, 2014
Thankful.
Family, food, and possessions are all blessings. But more than all of these things, I thank God for the love of my life!
PR
Tuesday, November 18, 2014
Thursday, November 6, 2014
Saturday, October 11, 2014
Wednesday, October 8, 2014
Monday, September 29, 2014
The Depth Of The Ocean
99.9% of the time we only see what people want us to see. Many present an image of perfection and some of us fall for it. We use their relationships as a yard stick by which all others should be measured. But do we really ever know what we think we know? The fact of the matter is that complexities become such because of their dept. It is impossible to see the bottom of the ocean by looking at the surface. All that we see is water. But we don't see what lives deep inside of that body of water. Relationships are the same. We cannot judge the depth by just looking at the surface.
PR
Saturday, September 27, 2014
Saturday, September 6, 2014
3 Ways To Stay In Love
1. Remember why you fell in love.
2. Focus on the positive attributes of your mate.
3. Spend quality time with the one you love. There is nothing more precious than time.
Sunday, August 17, 2014
IS Money better THAN LOVE?
Is money better than love?
Money cannot keep you warm at night or ask you about your day.
Money can't calm you and assure you that God will make a way.
Money cannot please you during lonely nights in bed.
Money cannot comfort you when your heart is filled with dread.
Money without love means nothing!
Wednesday, August 13, 2014
Monday, August 11, 2014
The Secret Feelings Of Men.
Men are human. Even though we like to think of ourselves as super heroes, the truth is, we are all just as vulnerable as anyone else. We have feelings emotions, insecurities, and needs that we don't often mention. No, it's not what you're thinking, and contrary to popular belief most of us are not that shallow or superficial.
The 3 secrets I am about reveal in this text are just the tip of the iceberg. They are by no means, all encompassing, but more of a truncated list designed to give women insight, and perhaps a better understanding of what's on her mans mind.
1. We want to be desired. Making love is wonderful, and contrary to popular belief those of us who are married or in committed long term relationship love to feel wanted. Not just in word, but in deed. We like nothing better than to know that our wives want us just as much as we want them.
2. We love validation. Just like the women in our lives, we love to be appreciated, adored, and valued. Sometimes words are as good as gold.
3. Even when we're exhausted we won't stop. As men we feel as if we are indespensable to our families, and in many ways we are. But even though we won't admitt it, being everything to everbody can be like having a second full time job sometimes. We love fo be made to rest.
PR
Friday, August 8, 2014
Wednesday, August 6, 2014
Staying In Love
Falling in love is easy. But is it harder to stay in love?
The perception of falling in love is based on what you think you know. Staying in love means accepting those thinks that you didn't know and embracing the qualities that make you fall in love in the first place.
Staying in love requires loving your mate for who they are.
PR
Tuesday, July 22, 2014
Does It Cost A Lot Of Money To Be Married?
Does it take a lot of money to be married is a good question. The person did not ask does it take a lot of money to “get” married, that’s an easy question to answer. No, the question asked was much harder. Does it take a lot of money to be married – that is a tough one because “a lot” of money is very relative, there are also many different variables that come into play.
Things such as these make a difference – where you live, how you live, how well do you budget money, are there children involved, what are your monthly expenses, do you have a car note, are you employed at a job that covers a least a portion of health insurance – this list can go on and on without ending.
Money is no substitute for love, as well, love cannot be bought. However, it sure does make life a lot easier when you have enough money to meet your basic needs and some left over to go out and buy an ice cream cone if you want one. Money is not what a marriage is built on, yet a marriage needs money as a tool to support the family.
Love is a beautiful thing that can lead to making decisions based on heartfelt emotions. Wisdom has to play a role in decision making processes as well, because no matter how beautiful love is, it will not buy groceries. That takes money.When looking at statistical data, many marriages end in divorce because of money issues. You have to admit money plays a big role in our lives. The lack of money causes challenges in an individual’s life, just imagine the challenges it can produce in the lives of a married couple. Many of us have faced these challenges and would not wish them on our worst enemy. Some of us are still going through. The victory of overcoming money problems can strengthen a family unit. Yet, much data shows it can also tear it apart.
Does it take a lot of money to be married – this is a good question filled with curiosity and a desire to be prepared. However, there is no concrete answer.
To come close to answering the question it would take detailed budgeting, laying out each partner’s current financial status, delving into spending habits, deciding how monies will be spent and allocated as a couple, talking about future goals and aspirations, transparency and honestly from both partners, and so much more.
PR
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